The chastity is not we “offer” a gift, but is our self-respect with the body complete consistent, we choose freedom. When the woman understands and respects her body truly, only then, when the man understood truly the pure and chaste will save in the innermost feelings, the hymen spirit will only then not become the mind the shackles.??Why does the hymen live?
Our body, each part is God’s careful masterpiece, its structure function always unequalled precise and ingenuity. Then, what function does the hymen have? Why doesn’t have “the virgin membrane”? What is really God requests feminine pure and chaste by this?
The anthropologists undergo many year research, advanced two kind of theories:
?Protection theory: Young girl’s vaginal wall is quite thin, the ovary growth is not yet mature, the hymen to prevents the germ invasion, in protects the reproductive system, maintenance birth ability, has the very vital role.
?The sexual selection said: Hymen’s function lies in the choice male the powerhouse, causes the fine sperm to enter the vagina to become pregnant, has the important evolution significance. In the ancient times great antiquity age, the humanity union’s capriciousness was very big, but hymen’s existence, might prevent the function low man to feminine invading. Between the natural function and the physical strength has certain connection, the physical strength weak one function also is quite usually low. The hymen forms an examination checkpoint, broken “the pass” enters, only then may leave behind own gene to the descendant.
??Hymen’s three change stage
?The hymen experiences three stages in the woman life the changes:
Young girl time:
The hymen cover in vagina near collar extension place, about 1~2 millimeter thick, middle has an eyelet, calls “the maiden iris opening”, the diameter approximately is 1 centimeter, usually is the circular, the ellipse or the zigzag; Some assume the meniscus, the iris opening is in favor of one side; Some to separate the shape hole, two eyelets do high and low or about compound; Some have many dispersion eyelets, looks like the screen.
When menstruation, menstruates discharges in vitro through this eyelet. If on the membrane does not have the eyelet, then each month’s menstruation is prevented, in the vagina agglomeration, and expands upwardly to the uterine cavity and the oviduct, even flows in the abdominal cavity, creates the oviduct breakage, the intestines adhesion, the abdominal cavity infects, in the medicine is called as “the hymen block system”, must perform the gynecology department surgery.
Before our puberty, because the ovary secretion’s estrogen are few, the vagina mucous membrane is thin, the rugosofusalina are few, the acidity is low, the resistivity is weak, the hymen has the stop bacterium to invade vagina’s function. After the puberty, along with ovary’s growth, in vivo estrogen increases, the vagina resistivity strengthens, the hymen has also lost the function.
Early evening:
?The primary sexual intercourse, the hymen goes against breaks forms the opening, and creates the hemorrhage.
? Because the hymen is dissimilar in shape and form, the breakage degree will have the very wide difference. Two hole’s separates the shape hymen hemorrhage to be many, is accompanied by the quite fierce ache. The labiate hymen bleeds are very few, does not have the pain nearly. Thick, and the elastic very good umbrella type hymen has the possibility not to burst completely!
?According to American Gynecology department doctor’s investigation, approximately some 30% female when disposable junction does not have the hemorrhage. This in 30% including the elastic strong umbrella type hymen, it possibly after the multiple sexual intercourse or after some time quite crazy sexual affection travel of only will then burst, but will bleed not necessarily. Also includes the multi-sieve shape hymen which extremely easy to burst, it possibly already burst before the primary sexual intercourse because of each kind of reason.
? After the birth:
?Because the embryo leaves after the vagina childbirth, the hymen further damages. Sometimes only leaves behind several surviving prominences, is called the hymen mark. The Caesarean birth childbirth will not have this kind of change.
??The hymen plastic operation - - does? Does not do?
Although the stave heart is unable to patch, but bursts the hymen actually may. Hymen patching is only an example very simple surgical department minor treatment minor surgery: Using the surviving hymen, performs the surgery to suture, makes it to restore as far as possible before the breakage the condition. Because the nonego hit, movement tearing or the minority several sex lives create the breakage is very easy to repair. But if after the multiple sex life, the restoration is quite difficult.
The hymen plastic operation 100% are the hymen culture products. In 17, the 18th century’s Europe, the woman all pasted on two kind of labels: “virtuous young woman” or “prostitute”. The difference is also very simple: Before the first marriage, hymen to be whether complete. The medicine did not have like this to progress now at that time, but the women have the means similarly, for instance a wedding night of Tibet chicken heart goes forth to battle.
??Down to after many year sexual liberation movements, hymen consciousness already desalinates nearly invisible. What the modern female cared: When starts, starts with any person. Europe’s and America’s nature tidies up the science to be more developed than the home many, but does not have hymen reshaping one item.
Perhaps we should consider “the chastity “from the different angle this concept: The chastity is not we can “lose” or “gives to” somebody’s thing, is not that membrane or several drop of blood, but means our self-respect and body’s completeness, we choose freedom. When embarks from this kind of self-respect’s sentiment, when carries on serious and the prudent choice, to each new lover, even and the identical lover, in life each new time, we are a chastity.
Perhaps only then, when the women have known their body truly, when the men understood truly the pure and chaste saves in the innermost feelings, but is not on that matter light membrane time, we can get rid of the hymen spirit to the mind shackles.
