4 Things Women Can Do And Enjoy Orgasm During Sex Intercourse
By Ndayisenga Ken
There are currently several incompatible explanations, as why women overall have fewer orgasms than men. One is based on psychoanalysis and claims that, women are basically sexual and orgasmic, but that most of them are conditioned out of their capabilities by a culture that tells them, that sex is dirty, wrong or harmful, and something to be ashamed of. As result, the theory has it; many girls never really discover their orgasmic capacity, as boys do. And so enter womanhood in somewhat sexually crippled state.
Clinical experience proves that there is a lot to this theory because women are capable of achieving orgasm once they understand and appreciate their own sexuality, but it seems incompatible with the other theory which derives from anthropology and state that human female, are the only female animals to have orgasm. It goes on to suggest that orgasms are not biologically essential but are rather specially learned refinement social behavior, somewhat like learning to play the piano.
Whichever theory is right. Female orgasm is not something that can happen as by magic, but there are number of things women can do to try and achieve it, if they consider this as the ultimate lovemaking, here are some.
1. COMPLETE SURRENDER DURING SEX INTERCOURSE.
For a woman to achieve orgasm; she must take a position in which she feels completely vulnerable and at her lover’s mercy to do with her what he will. She must make sure that the position allows her husband to stimulate easily and comfortably her clitoris. This complete surrender makes a woman get her orgasm in minute.
2. ENCOURAGE WHAT LET YOU FELL GOOD.
Woman should recognize that her sexuality is something, she posses herself and not some thing done to her. She needs to accept the sexual aspect of her body and mind, by tuning both to her own feelings and recognize what makes her feel good and encourages it. This trick, can lead her easily to sexual satisfactions.
3. USE PARTICULAR AROUSING FANTASY
Take yourself from being pleasantly warm to boiling point, simply by using a particular fantasy. Foreplay is the answer to orgasm enjoyment during intercourse for most women. Woman should ensure that her husband is aware of the woman’s taste in such things as massage, nipple, stimulation, and kissing.
4. HELP YOUR HUSBAND TO DISCOVER YOUR SENSITIVE SPOT
Every woman has a spot that has a greatest sensitivity, and from where she is likely to deliver her orgasm from. This spot is only waiting to be discovered, by the woman and her partner. Therefore the woman has to help her husband, discover this spot by guiding him and telling him where it feels good, because the husband can spend all the time stimulating the wrong areas which will not lead her to the point.
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