Virginity psychological and physiological olds Which is more important?
People talk about an issue of virginity, immediately think it is aimed at women in terms of, it seems there is no male virginity question. In fact, the gender of life, whether it is male or female, are there problems virginity.
In China, has long been of particular importance to the girl’s virginity physiological problems. In feudal society, people will bring in the entire issue on the virginity of girls in the first place. See a virgin girl is not the only criteria, and that is check her wedding night whether the bride. This is the next morning, we are most concerned about the matter. If the bride could escape abroad, and the next day holds on the book sent people into a “married doors training, ladies can be recognized,” and so forth-affixed to the woman home.
Girls also stained with blood with a bed sheet to friends, neighbors, to show their virginity. If her wedding night not fallen, not only on women disgraced; Entering this repudiation, female family would have nothing to say.
In today’s society, although it was with the concept of the development of society is changing, but many men and women have not extricated themselves from the feudal concept of virginity circle. For some newlyweds on the night and could escape not affect feelings, and some may even lead to the breakup of the family. In fact, people regard virginity the problems that women could escape abroad is not fair. Hymen thickness and the degree varies from person to person tenacity, not necessarily in the initial rupture intercourse on the bloodshed. Some of the more fierce and the labor movement, so that the girls could in premarital occurred ruptured hymen, not necessarily their own perception. Moreover, the newlyweds first sexual intercourse, often because of lack of experience without success. So the wedding night is not night, the bride does not indicate a certain unchastity.
In fact, the physical virginity, though important, but the psychological virginity more meaningful. Psychological virginity to a person’s impact is long-lasting, the consequences will be even more serious.
For example, a rogue elements due to rape or coerced by lawless elements and the women were raped, one of their own mistakes and a relationship of young people, though, have led to a non-normal physiological olds, but only afterwards can face up to reality, consciously abide by social ethics, and thus about beam their future behavior, that they could not do psychological olds, so that they can in the future life of failures will not recur.
However, a psychological olds who, because of their ideas and concepts have appeared biased, and this will inevitably make his acts do not perform, leading to the physiological olds. At present, there are some errors to young people, who on gender issues completely lost their self-respect, self-love, self-respect, and try to pursue it to vent their anger and to meet the pursuit of sexual liberation. Such psychological olds youth will embark on sexual crimes wrong road. Moreover, the psychological virginity to a person caused the harm is not subject to age restrictions. Young psychological and fell olds, adults and even the elderly will olds and psychological downfall.
We can see that a people, especially young people, for a variety of causes of non-normal physiological olds, which is not terrible. Terrible is the resulting psychological olds. Remember psychological olds will destroy your future. Of course, non-normal physiological olds to try to avoid, it is, after all, psychological olds one of the important causes.
