In seeks maiden’s man heart of hearts, besides to youth young girl’s expectation, but also hides was longing for will like woman idea which organizes according to own wish. To be specific, this has contained man’s one kind of anticipation: “if can with maiden’s woman contact, that she not be able to look like the tentative plan to be such mature in the natural aspect?”This had reflected the man regards as toys’ male point of view the woman. Said the toys perhaps excessively, but the man hoped that he is in the whip hand this idea, is truly undeniable.??But when starts explores the esteem virginity man’s inner world, will discover is hiding deep uneasy, namely they worried, if opposite party is not a maiden, then has the possibility depth the former experience influence, got in former days the boyfriend custom brand mark deeply, and could be too mature in the natural aspect.
??The hymen refers to a feminine vaginal orifice place circular mucous membrane wrinkle, thick approximately 1 -2 millimeters. The old idea has revealed the hymen to be complete, the wedding night sees (hymen hemorrhage) red is a maiden, displays the woman with not to have the flaw chastely, if after the sexual intercourse, has not seen red, then gave is showing its female not loyally before the wedding and so on. In fact, overwhelming majority female after disposable junction, because the circular maiden iris opening is very small only tolerates into a little finger generally, after penis insertion, will cause hymen or many place is torn to pieces, causes for the first time the sex life hemorrhage, later will increase along with the sexual intercourse number of times, the vaginal orifice gradually will also increase, the hymen fissure will also assume many place or assumes the obsolete damage. But has the minority feminine hymen to be pliable but hard to break, and is rich in the elasticity, although does not burst after the multiple sexual intercourse, is merely the maiden iris opening increases, some people until gives birth when the first embryo the hymen only then present the breakage, forms the hymen mark, therefore, only anew after marriage whether to see red or the hymen whether complete to judge a female whether to have the asexual life history not to be very also accurate. The hymen reproduce technology will be also the hymen which will destroy will be returned to original state through the cosmetic surgery surgery’s method or is born again a new hymen. This kind of hymen reproduce technology’s development in our country is also matter in recent years, even if in some developed countries, like the US, Japan is also only near several year matters. Although these developed western nations in the sex life aspect are the quite free opening, however will have some people also to handle jointly with China equally will still be regards to maiden this question, after likely some marriage, presented the fissure the family, her husband when the family had the quarrel also the matter which loss of chastied before the wedding the bride’s side will do for the attack topic, had some men in Japan also to do wife’s this weakness for oneself in the outside appointment sweetheart’s reason, some family also position was also high-ranking, like family background famous family, if appeared from the daughter had lost before the wedding loyally, is known the bystander will not feel the face, because aboveAll sorts of reasons, the hymen restoration and the plastic operation in overseas are also common. Regarding this kind of surgery whether to develop, domestic still has two different opinions, some people thought: The marriage ties can only establish in love and mutually in the loyal trust foundation, since the cosmetic surgery may be born again the hymen through the surgery, then with the hymen confirmed from already was the maiden also does not have the significance; Some psychologist and tidies up doctor to think that carries on the hymen reproduce technology is understandable, because the Chinese nation are a relatively conservative nationality the feudalistic thinking influence, the most men hoped that their newly married lovely wife are “the maiden “some countrysides or the economic development level low area sees red to the newly married hymen is particularly looks importantly. , because regarding some paederia scandens mairei youth who accidentally loss of chasties performs this kind of surgery, not only restored the hymen completely like at the beginning, has treated their mind wound more importantly from the psychology, made them simultaneously also to restore in psychological balanced, from this aspect, regardless of were of great advantage to the entire society to them.
??Regarding some females as a result of each kind of reason in before the wedding “the disgrace”, the hymen breakage which or created, moreover, regardless of said from that aspect, the majority females were did not hope that in premature lost “the hymen “before the wedding, then the most ideal means were seek help in tidy up doctor, the modern medicine cosmetology reshaping could relieve the worry which therefore for these females produced, might make them through the hymen reconstruction technique to resume self-confident and the hope.
??In fact, hymen reconstruction cosmetic surgery not very complex, usually namely can complete in the outpatient service. According to author many year experiences, the surgery only needs about generally a half hour to one hour, outside usually disinfects the genitals with iodine Er Kang and the vaginal orifice, uses 2% Lidocaine partial infiltration anesttesia, the breakage place hymen will cut neatly with the ophthalmology department small scissors creates the reason, uses again 5-0 every day may absorb the sewing thread to doubt carefully sutures, causes the hymen only to remain through a little finger’s hole, the technique finishes spreads the little antibiotic ointment, after the technique, uses 1:5000PP outside the powder fluid clean the genitals prevent the infection, after the technique, not to need to open the line. Regarding these sex life number of times many hymen breakages, then the surgery must slightly complex somewhat, sometimes need makes the small lip of vulva mucous membrane petal in the vaginal orifice side or the both sides to reduce the vaginal orifice, best leaving alone catheterization 3-5 days; Regardless of that method in the surgery, basically does not have the technique patient the pain, after surgery restoration hymen generally one to two months later can restore like at the beginning. About the marriage time, the author suggested that may latter from two to three months be more ideal in the technique.
