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??“you know? I have had a nightmare!”One day of early morning, in universe fairyland is inviting me who tours to hoist sails the telephone to awaken. The ear bank resounds her roaring: “I dreamed of myself to hold large bowl fatty greasy red-roasted pork to eat one, on the face have grown a similar size meat, for could let that meat be not too prominent, I only could then eat, cause on face’s meat to distribute even, the bowl emptied, I already was the whole face am ugly and ferocious-looking, actually some big hole did not have the stuff, a worry, has awaked.”
??Knew that hoists sails is the losing weight madman, I comfort solicitously: “felt relieved that the dream is counter-, you lost weight look like soon leave the result.”Was saying must put the telephone, hoped that can also return to oneself that fond dream. But she is not willing the recover of wire: “I quick have been insane, recently only noon ate vegetables salad every day, but was not big and hungry to 3:00 pm, could not bear eats the biscuit, the potato chips, more ate are more, eats to the full had regretted, thought oneself simply ignominious, several times ran up to the washroom toward the outside to spit…”
??, That spring dream had already not had the trace, I simply sit listen to hoist sails complain: “afterward some people introduced to me one kind suppresses the appetite the medicine. I have eaten the appetite and the body weight have descended fall but actually, but the mood is agitated specially, “the legal holiday” is not normal. Expired a half month.”” listens to listen, I suddenly realize the narration which hoists sails possibly have a greedy appetite or apositia’s symptom. I suggested that there makes an inspection her Monday to psychologist. Afterward confirmed that my suspicion is correct.
??Loses weight the paranoia
??Is losing weight movement blustery today, the people are right “the apositia” this name not to be strange. Because of acts the leading role “Titanic”, but the reputation rises up Kate · Winslet is special, makes the deep impression by the polished physique to the human, but she also once fully suffered the apositia to suffer: “when my 19 years old, thought that thin is the beautiful result does the spirit break.”Struggles she after 6 month-long to resume the feed finally the thought that will obtain later also husband’s encouragement, only then and even to from ascended self-confidently again to the plentiful stature!
??When overwhelming majority, the apositia and polyphagia are pair of unkind twin sisters, the psychologist are called these two symptoms the feed barrier.
??In general, the slimmer more diets more thinks the apositia most basic symptom: Subjectively thought that oneself is too fat, very intense fear put on weight, for oneself a low body weight limit, reduces the body weight endlessly, hears “fat” the discoloration; Starts time does not dare to eat, to disease later period, the appetite lacks extremely, the body becomes emaciated, body weight compared to normal low at least 15%, reduces 25% at least compared to the original body weight; The feminine menopause lasts above 3 months. Eating. Has the strong desire to food, such will diet cannot insist several days to be out of control food enticement. Eats greatly. For does not cause to put on weight, uses eats the method which the laxative or directs to spit, causes food which eats to discharge in vitro rapidly, then continued to start again to diet, cannot control the storm to eat again. So started once again, had polyphagia’s symptom. To afterward, to control own appetite, simply voluntarily takes food depressants, but these medicines actually cause the person fall in the blues, reaction capacity drops, even does not have the appetite completely, also starts to loss of appetite. Also, the apositia is therefore named “loses weight the syndrome”.
??The feed barrier’s morbidity age mainly between 15-30 years old, feminine patient’s quantity is higher than the male approximately is 10-20 times. Has 800 ten thousand people in the US to undergo apositia’s suffering. And 20% people dies because of the apositia. Our country recent years’s disease incidence rate presented the obvious rise the tendency, especially the sick population increased obviously in the economic civilization development quick area’s city. Makes excessive demands to the measurements is only one kind of representation clinical psychologist thought. Nervous losses of appetite the symptom production mainly to concern with the psychological factor. It is not the digestive disease causes. Has the request person to own measurements often regards as excessively the attractive stature the self-value the important part. Although they are not willing to acknowledge that generally is not willing to other people to reveal this idea, but in fact pursues is slim has become them to live the basic maxim. For fear that gains weight diets blindly, creates the anorexia, and develops the degree which gradually losses of appetite.
??Time in addition, the mental anguish, continues the mood despondently, and so on other psychological question possibly to cause the feed barrier to the natural aspect worry under the controlled condition, the expert to believe that are many, the feed barrier to own stature makes excessive demands is only one kind of representation, in-depth reason often is he (she) suffers setbacks in other aspects, is unable the goal which achieves itself to expect, transfers makes excessive demands the self-body.
??What is most typical is Princess Diana many people remembered she accepts when the interview: Noble princess nods the head slightly, a pair of pale blue’s eye lifts upwardly, reveals the infinite melancholy, was narrating not the happy marriage and the imperial family life pressure, caused her to fall into the quite long time have lossed of appetite and have a greedy appetite, committed suicide, slits wrists, hits the cabinet many times ……Is this plaintiveness, will cause the English also to be again unable to forgive their future king.
??Not come singly but in pairs Elizabeth · Taylor once was also twined by polyphagia. Is called “in my life because after by her the greatest sweetheart” Richard · Bolton the aircraft accident death. She feels despairs, all day the excessive drinking, simultaneously also has suffered from the nervous polyphagia. Probably has used two year, she only then walks from the shadow. It can be said that any example feed barrier’s behind has the profound psychological reason. Outstanding person appearance: What is thinly interesting, the apositia patient always looks at oneself is actually fatter than, and uses diets excessively resists this kind of sensation. The US psychologist once had done an experiment: The request apositia patient estimated that oneself face, the chest, buttocks’ width, and compares with the normal group compares. The result discovered that the apositia patient to crossed the width from body’s estimate. Although they were already thin, the majority of patients still thought themselves or their some spot” fat” and for this reason restless. In the numerous research discovered that patient estimate which to own abdomen, the chest, the buttocks, the leg encircles compared to actual big 10% one 15%.
??Why can the pitiful people like this “all the people from oppressive”? Now popular take slender slender as US is a substantial clause naturally. But also has the more profound social factor. The preceding section occupies the bestseller ranking high “Style” has this kind of section of descriptions: “today, obese is under the social stratum symbol. Compare with the upper class and the middle class, under the social stratum obesity is the former’s 4 times. We believed firmly that has one kind of outstanding person appearance in this country: “it requests the woman to be thin.”
??Individual build means in the expense principle control’s society:
??Whether you do have enough Qian He the leisure time fitness;
??Whether every day to eat undergoes the precise computation calorie and the fat quantity supper, but non-fast food and beer;
??Whether you do pay expensively sufficiently lose weight the product.
??All these, judged people solely on appearance sufficiently draws a conclusion for yours social position. More and more people discovered: Thin, is actually very expensive.
??It is said that some clinical medical scientists propose “the ideal body weight” concept, but in the reality can achieve the ideal body weight the human it is said that has 5%. In order to prove that oneself are not the poor person, the people lose weight crazily. But statistical count feed barrier main harm: Because the serious malnutrition creates organism function the drop, the serious anemia, the electrolyte disorder, the heart rate reduce speed, the immunity to drop, endocrine disorder, but also together will be anxious, losing sleep, the mood not steady and the compulsive thought and so on energetic symptom, the situation serious will also initiate the sequential depression. When is lower than the standard body weight below 65%, patient’s mortality rate reaches as high as 10%-15%. Should carry on the treatment early. the thinking mode which by the morbid state thinking mode in @ the morbid state behavior is decides the mental healing which most important is needs to correct this some to twist: ” I am too fat. Fat is not beautiful. Will lose weight will cause me to obtain the more person’s affections, I will be more joyful than the present.”
??Will have accomplishment psychologist not to attempt to put briefly the clothing patient to give up losing weight, he will only emphasize: Anything will have an appropriate limit this good deed also to turn the misdemeanor, lost weight is also so. What does a girl thin surface belt emaciated look also have artisticly may say? Say nothing of also delayed the work and the study. Doctor inquires the patient earnestly: Your present’s body weight is how many) looks like your such height the girl normal body weight is how many; How many are your ideal body weight? Which matters you will recreate for this ideal body?
??If both sides can obtain consensus of opinion psychologist to be able to work out a detailed plan together with the patient, including the daily feed and the exercise, then carries out this plan to realize “the ideal body weight” gradually strictly. Certainly this ideal body weight has a scientific standard. If had the anxious mood in this process, doctor using the flaccid technology, will instruct the patient through the suggestion to have the order to relax the whole body muscle, will eliminate the intense mood response. When the anxious mood reduced. The plan can work smoothly. So long as the patient made the little progress to look like in one day to control the desire diet which had a greedy appetite to the normal direction to have a spot diligently to restore doctor to give praise commending and so on moral encouragement patient also to be possible to reward itself to deliver itself a small gift to ask itself to look that a movie or listened to a concert. This is to enable the good adaptive behavior to obtain the strengthening. Is called “the generation of coin therapy” in the mental healing.
??The preamble has mentioned, the feed barrier’s person faces the pressure which and the wound frequently in the life is unable to deal with, will have comprehension faculty psychologist the keen discovery patient to live the pain which will constrain. Will penetrate him along with the conversation to inspire the patient: “oneself strive for in the life the joy bit by bit, does not need to go all out to try to please others’ vision to lose weight cannot enable you to obtain you to hope.”
??If the patient can realize from experience to the life in also has compared to loses weight a more important matter, and gets rid in gradually the individuality weak and the imperfect aspect, that mental healing’s significance zhiyu does not restore the normal appetite and the body weight, but also causes the patient by a maturer healthier point of view facing the entire life. (Vogue healthy version)
