Chaos harmful virgin priceless
I received around the country in recent years a large number of young people psychological counseling letter, which of 50% to reflect the issue of girls and boys between the contacts of the opposite sex. For instance, some schools boys 12-27 with his girlfriend, he said : With the first, I would like to have a second, third; Some female secondary school principal to be caressing her or sex occurred, day and night on the Japanese government wants to date with her boyfriend, leading to lower scores. Some of the local city hospital statistics also show that young people today unmarried pregnancy or abortion summary of a few of 50% or more, and the youngest is only 12 or 13 years old, a serious threat to their health.
Young men and women tend to like to go to worship mysterious wonderland 1000, at all costs to taste the forbidden fruit; Such acts are actually very childish behavior. Premarital sex at least will have the following calendar psychological harm : remorse; Guilt and shame flu; Personal growth disorders; Lost sense of self-respect and self-esteem; Since then a fear of serious feelings; Worries pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections; Interpersonal generated suspicion and excessive vigilance; Personality degeneracy; Will depression and even suicide. If you and your peers to discuss, debate about premarital sex, we can conclude Ten of the more harmful. For the protection of my head, some people can do better, it is a will to power. But for everyone concerned, they are the same “is not easy.” Under what circumstances easier to refuse sex? Are you wearing a neat time : or undressed when? If you choose not to resolve “premarital sex”, it should not have crossed that line, in time, location, dressing, dating way it can create the environment to protect themselves. Especially in the secondary period, the best men and women do not separate date.
Of course, sometimes especially with the opposite sex want to talk about his own mind and does not want a third party to hear, when they are most apt to fall into love, it should be how to make their own rational?
Not absolutely not two people talking, but they have to learn self-restraint and calm. For example, in conversation at home, the family was chosen at the time, and rooms should Behind the door; In conversations outside, on the choice of the day rather than late in the period, the relative quiet but open environment. In short, if you want to advance, and a strong willpower, it would not have occurred should not happen.
Whether male or female, as long as you have the determination and defense, you have the right to have sufficient capacity to resist other people’s demands, so you will not become a mess of premarital sexual victim can take time to achieve abstinence. Married to the love of age, you will also redouble our own experience as a virgin, or the real value of virginity.
Girls and boys “sexual self-care operations,” Guard youth, as well as future security.
