The familiar sex problem of the Adolescent
(A)sex masturbation behavior
So-called masturbation behavior is digit all egos carry on while having no opposite sex to participate of satisfy sexuality of activity.Generally have sex imagination, sex dream and masturbate three species forms.
The ? fantasize:Mean the person is under the awake condition to fall through of have something to do with sex the imagination of affairs, is “continuous story” which has sex color from the band of plait, also call daydream.Be placed in an Adolescent little male young girl, to the opposite sex adore a desire very severely, but again can’t take place a sexual behavior with the opposite sex adore to satisfy an own sexuality.So love lens and fragment that once saw in the movie, television, magazine, literature book ever, has been re- combined, the figment come from F and adore of opposite sex together.
This kind of imagination can arbitrarily weave, plait dissatisfied again re- weave;Have no to have scruples about ground to play, play the disregard want to re- play again.Return a companion to contain homologous emotion response, reaction after get into role, probably agonism thousand times, may also sad shed tears.This kind of sex imagination at before fallen asleep and wake up after that a period of time of lie the bed, and the odd moment more emergence.Parts of persons can cause sex be excited, girl sexual organ hyperemia, congestion, boy’s ejaculation, have of still accompany with a masturbation to appear.This kind of sex imagination is in the high school student a great deal of existence.According to abroad some data report way, about have 27% males and 25% females, affirm them at complete without sex knowledge had sex imagination;28% male and 25% femaleses have this kind of sex imagination before Adolescent.Investigate in the teenager under 19 years of age according to the domestic, have have of sex imagination 68.8%.If this kind of sex the imagination by chance appears, be still normal of, natural.If is to usually appear to replace reality by hallucination, may cause abnormal state, should ahem and accommodation.
? Dream:It is a digit to take place a sexual behavior with opposite sex in the sleeping, attain the phenomenon that sex satisfy.According to foreign data report way, the incidence rate of sex dream is male much in female;The male is deliver in Adolescent more and the female is deliver in youth anaphase more.The male has sex dream to often have an ejaculation(nocturnal emission), the general dream is more vivid and lifelike, the flesh pleasant sensation is more big, lover polypeptide of in a dream is incognizant or only once met of female, and come to behind generally don’t since each detail recall.The female’s sex dream what to differ from a male is wake up can start to recall dream behind of contents, and can affect own emotion and behavior, this is more have the female of personality characteristics of Mao disease for show Zhao.The emergence of sex dream is can’t be control by consciousness, it is a sexuality to can not get to mediate, ego depression, turn into manifest content to get contented of one species physiology activity, to others have no injury, but mediated the action of sexuality, so is one species masturbation behavior.The research expresses that sex realize more strong, inhibit more deep, sex dream appear of possibility more big.
The ? masturbate:BE a digit to fondle through an ego or stimulating organ but creation stimulation or a species of the orgasm behavior, this kind of stimulus can pass hand or some species object and even two legs clip crowded genitals and can immediately produce.The masturbation all can take place at the Adolescent male, female, with male more see.Masturbation is one species masturbation means, release a nervous species of the mind of the amount of function mitigation measure.Certainly, the masturbation excessiveness is also disadvantageous, the excesssive masturbation will make the sexy high tide of flesh while need not the normal come-on of opposite sex have to with satisfy, this be one species abnormality of, metamorphosis of sex satisfy way.We can’t generally discuss the bane of masturbation, also don’t promote a masturbation.
(Two)early love
What is meant by “early love”?At the different and social system, the different ages is go to don’t have an objective standard for unify to the different person.Actual circumstance and social norm of our country say currently, the high school student falls in love and then belong to early love and the cardinal reason includes following both side:Study mission while being a high school student heavy, early loving will scatter a great deal of energy, certanly will affect studies.Two is the independence degree of the economy life haven’t been independent.In love with purpose is amphiprotic combine to marry, this is to need economy a top independence living last independence but have ability to undertake family responsibility, the high school students obviously don’t have this condition.
The whole country investigates a manifestation in recent years and the early love of the high school student has already occupied very big ratio.Student’s a fraction which early loves studies result an excellent class a staff, need to have more opportunity contact opposite sex because of the work, there is prestige having public appeal easily causing the attention of opposite sex and pursuing;Another a fraction is study result worse and family morbid student, study a not good psychological stress greatly, easy the transference associates at the both sexes, the family morbid classmate lacks father and maternal love, and the affection hunger and thirst comes from by look for together the age person’s concern.At present high school student early love have been the social problem that people extensively pay attention to.Early loved to bring to affect a studies, sexual behavior low age to turn, induct a crime to some extent etc. poor result.Therefore, medium, the primary school living to fall in love to be always negate by the society.
Summarize, the high school student early loves like descend a characteristics:While being a dim moonlight, to the love of sexual understand don’t understand, hard put to love.Two is a simplicity, feels together pleased with the other party, the other party contains attraction and lack adult to fall in love to in many ways and deeply sink to the other party family, politics, economy…etc. but rational consideration.Three is a difference, the performance for the girl early love more early, more, probably have something to do with girl develop more early.Four is a lability, early love successful man really seldom seen, two people along with everyone’s face of continuously mature, because of the variety of ideal, aspiration, personality…etc. can endearing variety;The in love more and early leaves the day of matrimony more long, grow dream for the night more, lack a stability.Five is to excite sex, lack rational, usually meet the matter abrupt fantasy, recklessly do, on impulse don’t account result.Have of hit upon a sudden idea an occurrence coitus, copulation, satisfied taste a consequence;Some separation and reunions in a hurry have no genuine feeling while gather, motionless permit while spread, light-minded association, slip toward the mire pond for morally degenerate.
