Fear of medical virgins
I was a sophomore girls. I had been there in the event of tension illnesses, especially afraid to conduct medical checks.
I recall that on the first day, school organization girls to the hospital for medical checkup. Because I overstretched, he was diagnosed as “heartbeat too fast”; From then on the annual physical examination, I have tense at the mention, but every time drastically, therefore each can clearance. I measured off heartbeats, are usually under 70 and normal; But I see a doctor they are afraid that they do not use a decent looks, my heart involuntarily soft bear.
Even later to a hospital were tense. I am studying hard, hoping to college. But physical examination pass. I have asked many of my classmates, their physical examination whether nervous? They said it was not tense. The students have taught me that I can have this fear that got out of hand, I do not know how do implore you can give me an answer.
[Analysis] you afraid to check the body is exposed to the body of a virgin’s fear.
Fear naked body, it is afraid of contact, this is virgin “taboo instinct.” Psychologist Freud in “virgin taboo” an article said : “virgin afraid of danger, must involve a contradiction feelings.” Such “contradictory feelings” for the performance of sexual contact with a virgin would like to hope, and fear; Reflection afraid, afraid of creating more. Such contradictory feelings intensified, and is a danger and fear. This sense of danger and fear of nature, Freud said : “They are not aware of the spirit of — imagine the danger; Or is it real — real danger. “The facts prove that the risk of virgin sense of fear, most of the spirit of its own — imagine the results this is wishful thinking.
“Virginity taboo” is the others can not contact her body. Touch is a contact is a contact to watch. From a psychological perspective, the hands and eyes are accurate, “sexual”, so afraid of heterosexual virgin touch or gaze of her naked body. Freud said : “The girls from the bashful psychological sexual development of resistance. Physical changes to maturity, they always sick to the guts, a unit observe their breasts and buttocks. In front of a virgin woman has refused to undress, they always forget everything that has been shocked to see nude. ” are you afraid to undress for medical reasons.
Neurosis is always heart-stimulated by the strong delusion. “Virginity taboo” in real terms is to prevent the “virgin paranoia.” Because a virgin will be stimulating paranoia, and all the neuroses are controlled by paranoia, paranoia torturous symptoms.
Virgin taboo Maiden Lane harbored the “virginity” violations of the tight defense, which is the most fundamental women’s worries. This crisis has to extend to the marriage. Freud said : “Through the many happy marriages of analysis, we found kind of driven (by marriage) lose virginity woman to take revenge (husband) the motive, in a civilized women’s hearts and minds and not disappeared. Now there are many women in the first marriage from start to finish cold if austerity, the enthusiasm of men indifferent and finally divorced; However, upon remarriage, the situation suddenly changed, the kind of gloom disappeared and times of love and the joy of taste, so that bystanders were surprised about. Undoubtedly, the original bad reaction with the first integration of the end of the disappearance . ”
Virgin revealed normal taboos gives people a pure virgin beauty; But some girls over there sensitive taboo extreme, and this is neurosis. To overcome this disease is the right way to the virgin taboo understanding. Understand, she recognized the things lost secret and threatening. I think this will not affect you dream of the university.
