I am the high two female students. I have since childhood encounter a difficulty the tense problem, is afraid specially carries on the health examination. Remembered when on just first day, the school organizes the female student to the hospital inspection body. Because I hypertension, therefore is diagnosed by doctor is “the palpitation too fast”; Inspects the body every year from now, I am anxious, moreover one time compared to fierce, therefore each time cannot go through a strategic pass. I have measured the palpitation, generally is 70, is very normal; But as soon as I saw that doctor is afraid, is afraid them to use one kind of not proper judgment to look at me, causes my heart cannot help but to jump tightly.
As soon as to afterward even developed to enters the hospital to be very anxious. I study am very diligent, hoped that can be admitted to a university. But the health examination cannot go through a strategic pass. I had asked many schoolmates they inspect the body to be whether anxious? They said not anxiously. Schoolmates enlighten me, but my this kind feared already arrived at the beyond redemption situation, I did not know how should manage, pleads you to be able to give me a reply.
[analysis] you are afraid the inspection body, is the maiden to the exposed organism’s fear.
Is afraid the exposed organism, is the fear contact, this is the maiden “the taboo instinct”. Psychologist Floyd in an article said in “Maiden’s Taboo”: “the maiden is afraid the danger, must involve one kind of contradictory sentiment.”This kind “the contradictory sentiment” the performance hoped for the maiden to the natural contact that is afraid; Wants to fear that feared thought. This kind of contradictory sentiment intensifies, is one kind of dangerous feeling and the sense of fear. About this kind of dangerous feeling and the sense of fear nature, Floyd said: “they cannot distinguish clearly are the energetic - - imagination dangers; Real - - actual danger.”The fact proved that maiden’s dangerous feeling, the sense of fear, the majority comes from own spirit - - the imagination result, this is presumptuously thinks.
“the maiden taboo” is others cannot contact her organism. Touching is one kind of contact, the onlooking is also one kind of contact. Says from the psychology angle, the hand and the eye are “the reproductive organ”, therefore the maiden is afraid opposite sex touching or stares at her exposed organism. Floyd said: “girl’s bashful psychology from to natural growth resistance. When body to mature change, their always morbid state timid, observes their breast and the buttocks shyly. The maiden is not willing to remove completely clothes in front of the woman, they always could not forget that is seen by the human the entire bare shock.”This is you are afraid removes completely clothes to make the medical examination the reason.
After the neurosis always innermost feelings receive the strong stimulation, produces strong delusion. “maiden taboo” the essence is prevents “the maiden to presumptuously think”. Because the maiden will receive the stimulation to presumptuously think, but all neurosis will be are presumptuously thought to control, presumptuously thinks the symptom which will suffer.
In maiden’s taboo occludes the maiden to be right “the chastity” the strict defense which encroaches, this is the feminine most in-depth concealed worry. This kind of misery must continue after the marriage. Floyd said: “through after many not content marital analyses, (because we discover that kind of obligation marriage) to lose the woman who chastity retaliate (husband) all sorts of motives, has not vanished in the civilized woman’s mind. Now has many women in the first marriage from beginning to end iced cold, is aloof to man’s enthusiasm, finally divorces finally; However once the second marriage, the situation suddenly has a new look, that kind of dreary situation clears off, time tastes makes the love happiness, causes the observer surprised. Without a doubt, the original untoward effect along with the conclusion which first time unifies has vanished.”
The maiden taboo revealed normally, for human one kind of pure maiden esthetic sense; But some girls are excessively sensitive present the taboo the extremalization, this is a neurosis. Overcomes this symptom the means is to the maiden taboo understanding. Has understood, she knew the thing has lost the mystique and the minacity. I thought that this will not affect your university dream.
