Seeks for G pleasant sensation female What makes the consultation is 32 year-old females, puts on a white the one-piece dress, the long hair shawl, the gait is being natural the youth dynamic charm.
“I come here am want to solve a confusion: Why am I unable from G to light obtain the sexual climax?”The girl said very tranquilly.
Free, confidently discussion question, but the taboo idea, this is not one in my opinion modern healthy feminine important symbols.
“you know G spot the exact location?”I asked.
“certainly,” the girl tells me through the expression, her is has the research to the natural question. “G spot located at the vagina front board approximately the span first 1/3 deep place, to this spot’s upper limit of stimulation easy acquired character pleasant sensation, to cause the sexual climax.”She said.
I do not have to take a stand immediately, hoped that can have more understandings to her puzzled background: “can hear you to have the very earnest attention to G spot, why you will think that has not obtained the sexual climax?”
She continues confident which like I hope that discussed likely oneself like some kind of cooking is discussing G spot equally.
Girl a half year ago starts with the boyfriend to have the sexual relationship, but she had not been able to obtain the sexual climax from the sex life, the girl catches in diligently the sexual intercourse G spot feeling, but, she is even unable to feel its existence.
“why you will feel G spot? To have given you to the clitoris stimulation the pleasant sensation experience?”I asked.
The girl said: “self-consolation time I will stimulate the clitoris well, will obtain the high tide. , does with the boyfriend loves, he ever does not intend to stimulate my clitoris. I am not willing to make the special request to him, the vagina sexual intercourse am not may stimulate G spot similarly, thus brings the pleasant sensation? Does my G spot have the question?”
The matter has been very clear, I then mention my idea to the girl.
G spot is the reforger myth?
I tell the visit the girl, G spot existence or not, is the matter which actually not yet confirmed.
G spot proposed by a Germany gynecologist in 1944 that this doctor said that this position compared to the vagina other spot change feeling pressure, easy to produce the sexual climax. Although has some women to declare that truly oneself have obtained G high tide, but, the medical arena still some people regarding this held the suspicion.
What needs to explain, in 1944, the clitoris was the woman acquired character pleasant sensation important spot viewpoint already proposed, was the female obtains the sexual climax to the clitoris stimulation the key to be. The clitoris high tide theory denied the vagina high tide myth thoroughly, it tells the woman also to tell the man explicitly, the vagina sexual intercourse which the men crave, if does not stimulate the clitoris, the woman is unable to obtain the high tide experience radically. In other words, the vagina sexual intercourse in the physiological pleasant sensation, is at least meaningless to the woman, is only man’s joyful game.
Just like the women’s rights person said that the clitoris changed all.
The clitoris only function is the acquired character pleasant sensation, its existence denied the woman not to have the sexual desire or the sexual desire thoroughly weakly in man’s compiling.
The partial women’s rights person believed that G spot is a new myth which the man makes, makes up the misfortune which the vagina high tide myth loses brings.
Inspects G question from another angle, similarly will widen our field of vision, how after “G spot did say” will propose half century, humanity’s scientific research had still not been able to determine this spot finally the existence. Whether to have such possibility; To the woman sexual desire long-term ingrained negative manner, is affecting our thought and the behavior, prevented the science to prompt forward. In this man’s world, involves the woman joyful research always slow progress.
G spot said proposed that also has caused other questions, if G spot exists truly, then means that the woman have been also many an individuality pleasant sensation center, they therefore have the reason to become compared to man more sexy species. Because the man already had should not the time, but the woman should not the time feel has felt inferior, where can also withstand the new serious attack?
Similarly has many scientists to believe in firmly to G spot existence. In view of some gynecology department doctors said that several dozens years clinical have not observed to G spot formulation, our country scientist Mr. Ma Xiaonian once pointed out that G spot does not have the sense of touch nerve ending, but is the deep pressure nerve ending, therefore, only then in exerts time the powerful stimulation can feel.
I said to the interview that youth woman: “even if G spot real existence, is also not each time makes the Ido brand to be able to create the stimulation to it, but similar need man’s compassion, care and careful, similarly needs to drill. Therefore the woman obtains the sexual climax the key not to have G spot.”
No matter G spot whether to exist, its present situation itself then asks a question to us: Whether the woman can according to body’s characteristic, enjoy the sexual affection.
Enjoys our body
What I am interested is, how is this visit’s girl so in a stew to G spot, must certainly find it. She has not been already obtained the sexual climax from clitoris there?
She is one not conservative modern female obviously, can the discussion question, seek for the sexual climax confidently. But, even if on this kind of girl body, we still could look that a male power culture penetrates marrow’s mildew evil to them. She knew obviously the clitoris to own important, the hope joy, is actually not willing to request the boyfriend obviously to stimulate own clitoris. The vagina sexual intercourse still regarded as by her the standard the sexual intercourse way esteem, controls her thought is obviously this kind of mentality: Through own endeavor, in the vagina sexual intercourse which craves from the boyfriend obtains the sexual climax.
I the suggestion which proposed to her is, whether can trade a mentality: Through boyfriend’s endeavor, causes her from to obtain the sexual climax to the clitoris stimulation.
The woman should not become passive, should not become obeys man’s dependency, but should set own request. The woman most understands her body and the desire, if they are not clear about the request, the men often did not know how to do is better. The woman has the right to press the way which, to their beneficial way sex life they like. In achievement sexual affection equal both sides, has the responsibility to cause opposite party to be joyful.
“that what should I request him to make?”The girl asks.
I said that the man before making love, may stimulate the clitoris first, stimulates the feminine passion, this is advantageous to both sides simultaneously enters the condition. The intelligent man should understand that causes the joyful optimal path, is causes the woman to be first joyful.
“perhaps he does not have that patience.”The girl said.
“but why does the woman always have the patience to endure itself to be unable to feel the joyful sex act? We should change man’s offensive posture.”I said. If the man is willing to cause the woman to be joyful, they can always find out some means.
More importantly, the woman must get rid of the vagina high tide thoroughly the myth, also gets rid to G spot seeks the dream, enjoys the heaven to grant our clitoris fully, the capture is joyful. Women’s joyful way, first step is must give up to the masculine deference.
The girl has smiled, said: “I have understood, you are advocating one kind of woman standard the sex life.”
I have also smiled, nods said: “the sex life has been the man standard, only then summons the woman standard, can realize the bilateral equality sexual affection.”
The girl thought deeply about was saying: “I will do diligently.”
My consultant walked satisfied, I believed that takes the new generation the female, they will open male and female equal rights the time, at least in natural domain.
