In seeks maiden’s man heart of hearts, besides to youth young girl’s expectation, but also hides was longing for will like woman idea which organizes according to own wish. To be specific, this has contained man’s one kind of anticipation: “if can with maiden’s woman contact, that she not be able to look like the tentative plan to be such mature in the natural aspect?”This had reflected the man regards as toys’ male point of view the woman. Said the toys perhaps excessively, but the man hoped that he is in the whip hand this idea, is truly undeniable.??But when starts explores the esteem virginity man’s inner world, will discover is hiding deep uneasy, namely they worried, if opposite party is not a maiden, then has the possibility depth the former experience influence, got in former days the boyfriend custom brand mark deeply, and could be too mature in the natural aspect.
??Which people possible to have to look like the Chinese to take hymen’s existence like this, even if in the 21st century’s today, whether most people still appraised the young women pure and chaste by the hymen the only standard. From the initiation immediate consequence is, the hymen repair surgery is lucky day by day in each big city, this has no alternative but saying that is the modern China’s awkwardness.
??The hymen repair, this kind deceives oneself and others the behavior repairs is actually on the feminine body and mind wound, men that spot pitiful and pitiful self-respect and acquisitive instinct?
??Visits business to be continuous
??Dr. Zhong is Guangzhou first group of operation hymen patching surgery’s doctor, he started from 1997 to be engaged in this surgery, until now had undergone over a thousand example repair surgery, the patient all was already 30 year-old below young women, the age smallest had 16 years old. Dr. Zhong told the reporters, has assumed the rise to this surgery’s demand the tendency, last year carried on this surgery’s population is most recent several years sum total, the hospital has not made any related advertisement nearly, but telephoned the human who perhaps came to consult to be continuous every day.
??The hymen repair surgery already had the very long history in the foreign country, but the present most is popular in Asia - - - this and people’s idea concerns. Dr. Zhong said that this is only a very small surgery, generally less than a half hour may complete; But surgery’s profit is very high, regardless of from the hospital benefit personal interest’s angle, the surgery certainly is a better and better. But from own innermost feelings, did not hope that saw this surgery so receives welcome, because this is only the procedure which after all one kind deceives oneself and others, no matter is because any reason undergoes the surgery, explained that the patient is withstanding one kind of common custom idea huge pressure.
??“young lady” most has the essential implementation repair
??Carries on the female who to the hospital the hymen repairs to be many and varied, the reason is also all sorts of strange and unusual. Dr. Zhong also has even met an example married patient, she performs this surgery is merely because the husband wants to find time first love’s feeling.
??To the hymen repair surgery’s report, some newspapers reported wantonly “young lady” to make money to perform the hymen repair surgery. Dr. Zhong has veiled criticism to this procedure: “I thought that even if is Miss `prostitute ‘, she undergoes this surgery is also has no recourse, what are more is comes ashore for `becomes an honest woman ‘, but is not makes money, I and many colleague’s views are different, I thought that instead is this kind of person most has the necessity to perform this surgery, because of the surgery from now on, possibly means they will henceforth start one kind of brand-new life.”
??Dr. Zhong said that relatively speaking, other type patient does not have how many are is willing to undergo the surgery, each people have own difficulties, but regardless of what patient visits, Dr. Zhong treat impartially, will not have a discrimination absolutely.
??The prosthesis is to feminine is unfair
??To the hymen repair surgery’s argument, had not stopped. Various viewpoints have their market, now many females already could perform the surgery naturally to the hospital, this may also say that is one kind of society’s progress.
??Zhongshan University philosophy department Zou Weizhong Dr. believed that regardless of looking from that angle, the hymen repair surgery can only use “bored” two characters to describe, because the hymen repair surgery true repair, is not on the woman body and mind wound, but is only to satisfy some men to the natural monopoly psychology and so-called “the pure and chaste” the pursue. In fact, a person impossible becomes because of a such small surgery the pure and chaste gets up.
??Dr. Zou Weizhong believed that the reason that the present also has this surgery, is because our society also has many too obsolete decayed ideas. Although “the woman liberates” the slogan already shouted for several dozens years, but the woman in fact has not obtained the true liberation, in the majority man’s minds, “the hymen complex” still did not have vanishing most at least on behalf of the feminine chastity. The hymen repair surgery to the female, is unfair, is the society which the man controls imposes on feminine shackles.
??Dr. Zou indicated that even if after is in the society most approves the woman who encounters rapes, carries on the hymen repair, is also not unnecessary, because she is only a victim, wrong in her, she does not need to carry on the measure which anything makes amends. The reason that many people might find all sorts of reasons to come for this behavior to get free, was only because everybody’s idea still had the problem.
