Questioning: I am a mature unmarried woman, although I knew that is not all maidens hymen is complete, but must be careful for the later marriage’s insurance, ask that what kind of self-consolation will not make breaks it, how can identify the hymen breakage? Whether is only the bloodstain proved that has He Zhong the female not to be able to harm the hymen with the appliance? Answer: The mature unmarried female along with physiological and the psychological unceasing development, certainly will pass through the fixed property natural disposition excitement. This kind excited is one kind of impulsion, needs to obtain the prompt release, otherwise, the intrinsic natural pressure will cause them to produce some psychological imbalance. But consoles oneself is one of prompt release’s methods, the mostly mature females varying degree has adopted this method.
Feminine vagina jaw opening has the thin film which -and-a-half seal up, namely hymen. On the hymen has or many eyelets, the eyelet size is different from person to person. Generally is quite small, the small number of people most greatly also can only insert an own finger, some even assume the entire closed state, the cause menstruation cannot discharge, needs the surgery to cut open. Because the hymen is generally in the disposable junction is the breakage, therefore past many people complete or not regarded as the hymen to examine maiden’s basis. Actually, this basis does not gather the truth, because some females’ hymens in the childhood time the flesh wound, the surgery or other activities already burst, therefore cannot the hymen whether to burst the achievement to recognize maiden’s basis. Moreover, hymen whether to burst, female are difficult to identify, even if is her boyfriend is also very difficult to determine. Similarly cannot only be able to depend on the bloodstain to identify, because causes the feminine reproductive organ hemorrhage the reason is various, also has feminine hymen breakage is bleeds not obviously. Generally must be able to inspect the hymen after experienced doctor whether to burst.
Because has many people also to firmly believe whether the hymen does burst recognizes maiden’s basis, therefore, the mature unmarried female for the next marriage’s insurance, needs to be engaged in carefully truly, when self-consolation do not make the broken hymen as far as possible. Besides the vagina, can arouse the female excitedly, to have the pleasant sensation high tide spot to have many, like clitoris, small lip of vulva, urethra and other external genital organs, what is most sensitive is the clitoris. Therefore, unmarried woman’s self-consolation only needed the hand stimulation clitoris to be enough, not only will not injury and the hymen, but could also the full enjoyable pleasant sensation. The common female with the self-consolation appliance, mostly is through inserts the vagina to come the possibility to satisfy, has the possibility to cause the hymen to burst, should better not use. Even if some are stimulate the clitoris the appliance, should better not apply to the unmarried woman, because this will have the possibility to cause between your after marriage husbands and wives the natural sexual intercourse’s natural excitability and the natural pleasant sensation reduces greatly, do not apply as far as possible.
