How treat a premarital sexual behavior
Times have changed and many concepts have also changed. These changes to the concept, it is progress, but also has its backward side. Since the “sexual liberation” movement, people’s views on sex, a lot of changes, it has promoted the development of society and civilization, but also bring about many social problems. According to statistics : the United States each year 1 million teenage unwed; In Sweden, 57% of male students and 46% of female students had sexual experience. It has been in China’s Taiwan region, the students made a one-time concept survey, about 20% of college students had sexual intercourse history. Despite the alarming figures, but in comparison with foreign countries, China’s feudal thinking in stopping premarital sex plays a certain role.
From the standpoint of a doctor, premarital intercourse is a negative attitude, because the problems they bring, are often beyond the capacity of young people. Regardless of the physiological, or psychological; Whatever was feeling the effects of sex, or sex life of the marriage, premarital intercourse have adverse effects.
However, the reality is inescapable, premarital sex has been the more people want to default, many people are turning a blind eye. Several decades ago, public opinion can be an unwed woman pushed to the wall, now gonna live, at the wedding, when the road. This is social progress or social retrogression? Currently, there are diverse views.
However, one thing is certain, and that is that as long as both sides agree to a premarital sexual intercourse, is not outrageous (unless prostitution and incest hooliganism), it is a normal physiological and psychological reflection is a natural attribute not be good to stop the inevitable result. However, a premarital sexual intercourse is, after all, illegal cohabitation, it is in breach of the traditional moral values, although some old moral values is not correct, it can stop premarital sex, it is of positive significance. However, the feudal idea of the repressed, it is inhuman, they openly denied the sex, the so-called “starve to death is a small matter compared to unchaste ‘, ruthlessly deprived of the many men and women can enjoy the fun. As Mr. Lu Xun said : “nothing but make growth more hypocritical bad guys, good guys unprovoked the more and more that I have just useless suffering. “And this ghost is still the lingering dispute.
However, “sexual freedom” were greatly exaggerated premarital sex and the reasonable benefits and even advocate “trial marriages.” These extreme views is obviously wrong, and the result can only bring about abortion, illegitimate children, sex crimes and other social problems is to love, marriage, the great social irresponsibility, is a low-level, the carnal animal doctrine. Some people Feng orders of the unborn children marry, not because they love the results and wait for their marriage is a tragedy.
Type “Anyway relations are essentially defined simply” first act fast “idea is extremely dangerous. Aside from premarital sexual intercourse between men and women will both physiological and psychological harm, light on the sexual morality of the double standard for men and women, female premarital sexual intercourse as a focus on victims men should not take this step. There seems to be able to tolerate a number of male and female sexual relations, and not allow women to be misbehaving, it is a performance of the inequality between men and women is extremely unfair. to eliminate this inequity is not called women as well as men debauchery, and advocate in sex, social and other areas, men and women should have equal powers. as women need self-respect, self-love, premarital sexual intercourse to prevent the occurrence of Hopewell, because after all, the most unlucky is that women themselves.
