In numerous consultation, what everybody most cared is the body and the festival relational question, also how to regard maiden’s question. Explains this question thoroughly comprehensively, involves to ethics, the morals, the culture, the society and so on many aspects, is unable in the short length to achieve, can only make a main elaboration in here from several important aspects.??The maiden has several kind of explanations: 1. female in the room, refers to the female who end gets married. 2. has not had sex act’s female. 3. analogy primary. But the chastity in Chinese explanation for the firm moral integrity, refers to the morals which in the feudal ethics and rites advocates does not loss of chasty, does not remarry.
??Hymen’s completeness, what requests was the woman in could not have the contact before the wedding with the male, requested the woman to submit the man under the faithful until death moral standards, and with lost wrongly the disgrace equates loyally. In the feudal period, the agricultural society’s production by the male primarily, the woman little has the fierce activity, hymen’s non-breakage situation are extremely few, moreover as a result of the feudal ethics and rites criterion’s fetter, the woman jueshao had before the wedding with the masculine contact opportunity, the non-marriage woman easy to guarantee hymen the completeness, the hymen is complete or not may weigh the woman to a certain extent whether to have had before the wedding the sex act. In the modern society, this kind of situation had the change, the woman participated in the social activity to increase the non-reason hymen breakage. Moreover, sex act’s content is widespread, the natural contact’s way are also many, like the kiss, the caress and so on, so, the hymen complete or not has been unable as the judgment to have the asexual contact to be standard.
??Everybody knows this kind of general knowledge: Whether the man does have the sex act not to have any method examination, may see by this point, stressed that the chastity is only to woman’s request, it is the treatment of women as inferiors, eliminates the best illustration which the woman personality, the dignity, the price plant.
??Many women disclosed in the consultation that they as a result of carelessly, encountered other people to insult or to lose hymen’s completeness voluntarily with the boyfriend sexual intercourse, they worried that in after marriage was unable to the husband to explain, heavyhearted. In order to explain this question, lets us come to these muddled men to ask a question together, what you love is a person, can give you and the spouse brings the painful the membrane? You want to depend examine the hymen to prove completely your sexual partner belongs to your, then how you do prove your chastity existence to her? If you want to depend occupy the hymen, but then holds a woman, then what you will use to let you the spouse have you completely? Love focal point should in for a while, in th? Love is the claim unilaterally, bilateral offer?
??After pondering and replied these questions, we may obtain the common answer: Hymen complete and chastity not relations slightly; The hymen determines maiden’s standard. The chastity in modern society’s recent meaning is the clean body self-respect, it requests us only in the foundation which, legal and under the moral restraint falls in love occurs does not hinder other people’s sex act.
