As a specialized doctor, I thought that the hymen surgery is because the Chinese several thousand year culture tradition’s fetter and the reform and open policy bring the sexual liberation and the nature are free, two cultures will dash the result, the reform and open policy the sex act were later getting more and more before the wedding, lived together the phenomenon to be getting more and more before the wedding, China several thousand year traditional culture’s influence, the special parents, the friends and relatives is regarded including the party concerned himself to this question comparison, everybody quite popular one view so-called hymen complex. My working practice looked, not only the hymen complex solely is probably the male has, the female himself also has the hymen complex. Has some makes the hymen plastic operation is because opposite party boyfriend request is a maiden, or her subconscious felt future husband will care to this question, must therefore do. Also some part of people are think want to do, a typical example, a girl attractively, various aspects condition is good, she must marry, she said actually with me, her boyfriend paid no attention a little her this, moreover her boyfriend knew her past. But she specially loves her now the boyfriend, in the life her marriage did not hope that has any regret, wants from the psychology, the physiology to give her husband a maiden’s feeling. Not only such girl I has made 1-2. Her boyfriend knew completely her past, she wanted to give her husband a very perfect experience.
??Some husband is the virgin, will request his future wife is the maiden. Probably some are not, I have a patient, this girl is very young is also very attractive, her future husband will be the middle-aged person who the enterprise will have, will be has divorced, moreover her future husband also knew that this girl will have crosses. But he stemming from one kind of special point of view, disburses money to the girl to make the hymen plastic operation, this is other one kind of masculine hymen complex, is in the psychological hymen complex completely. Many girls in had the sex act afterward for various reasons to bid good-bye before the wedding with the boyfriend, they want to make a fresh start, some more perfect marriage, I thought is this surgery’s majority girls is very painful, the lamentation the helpless, will be happier for present’s life is more perfect, can not but undergo this surgery. I sympathize with them very much, this surgery has saved some marriages truly, also the achievement some very content marriage, had some also in overseas.
??I have some patients now also maintain with me relate, they possibly have one kind of special sentiment with me, as for some people thought that the hymen plastic operation is one kind of deceit behavior. In front of me lifts these examples, the young girl husband is a middle-aged person, he knew that this girl’s all pasts, he requested this, then he was deceived? Not. He wanted to be swindled, he pursued this kind of result one kind of feeling. Moreover that girl future husband will pay no attention radically, but she must give this marital more perfect beginning and the result, this also will be one kind of situation.
??Actually makes the hymen plastic operation is the fraud? Must act according to individual marital situation, must make the appraisal according to party concerned’s condition. What was really said that the maiden marriage certainly was happy? Is also uncertain. Has many both sides is the first final marital break-up, the marriage must depend on the bilateral sincere sentiment and like maintaining, does not lie in the hymen, this is the true marital foundation. If is the maiden possibly can more perfect somewhat, if opposite party is also virgin is more perfect.
