Hymen repair are now much controversy?
As a doctor by profession, I think the hymen surgery is due to China’s thousands of years of cultural tradition and the constraints of reform and opening up of sexual liberation and sexual freedom, the two cultures clash, after reform and opening more premarital sex, premarital cohabitation more and more by the thousands of Chinese traditional culture the impact, particularly parents, relatives and friends, including the parties themselves to pay greater attention to this issue, we view a more popular so-called hymen complex. I work in practice, the complex seemed hymen is not just men, women themselves are also complex hymen. Some do hymen repair is required because the other side is a virgin boyfriend, or her subconscious feeling among future husband very concerned about this issue, do so.
There are still some people feel that to be done, a typical example, a girl looks very beautiful, the conditions for a very good, she wanted to get married, she actually told me that her boyfriend had a little bit careless her, but she knew her boyfriend of the past. But she especially loved her boyfriend, her life marriage does not want to have any regrets, from a psychological and physiological her husband to a virgin feeling. This girl I had more than 12. Her boyfriend is fully aware of her past, she wanted to give her husband a perfect experience.
Some husbands are virginity, asking him to future wife is a virgin. Some do not like is that I have a patient, the girls are very young and very pretty, her future husband is a cause of very successful middle-aged man is from a marriage and her future husband know this girl had past. But he is out of a special mentality, money to the girl’s hymen repair done, this is another male hymen complex is entirely psychological hymen complex. Many girls have sex before marriage, due to various reasons, and her boyfriend broke up, they want to start again, a more perfect marriage, I feel that to do the surgery the majority of the girls are very painful, remorse are very helpless, to the future of a more prosperous life more perfect, had to do it surgical. I sympathize with them, this operation really save some marriages, and the achievements of some very happy marriage, some are still abroad.
I have some patients still maintain contact with me, they can say I have a special feeling, for some people feel that the hymen repair is a fraud. Before I cite these examples, the young girl husband is a middle-aged man, he knew this girl all the past, he requested to do so, he is being cheated? It is not. He wants to be taken, he pursued the result of a kind of feeling. Other girls that the future husband simply does not care, but to give her the perfect marriage and the beginning of the outcome, this is the one.
Do hymen repair is not cheating? According to the marriage of individuals, according to the situation of the parties to do evaluations. That really is a virgin certainly happy marriage? Not necessarily. Many are the first two of the final breakdown of marriages, marriage requires bilateral sincere feelings and love to sustain, lies not in the first place, which is the true foundation of marriage. If it is said that a virgin could be more perfect and if the other side is the Virgin perfect.
