in 1997 night of the New Year’s Day, regarding Song Xiaofeng and Arab League Li is life-long unforgettable. Is in love after two years, they have formed the husbands and wives in this day. Like the dream, two sentiments are wedding day reluctant to part, the deep attachment road is loose, this boundary they the value were used to are very long. Mystical and attractive wedding night, asks to be excused one after another along with the relatives and friends approaches. The small peak and Arab League appears magnificent is intense and is excited. The wedding night is this transits to the youth men and women from the sweetheart for husbands’ and wives’ turning point, in this turning point, their relations will present the important breakthrough, after this, they all give themselves from the sentiment to the human body opposite party, does not need to have any concealment again. This kind of breakthrough’s symbol, they will have the life disposable life tonight. When reading with onlooking related sexual affection description books and film and television, when a person associates, even in the dream, their each one once more than once had conceived this kind of life, tonight saw with own eyes the dream will turn the reality, certainly can excited restless. Before the sleeping, careful and the gentle small peak has read the photo album together with Arab League Li, recalls them to be in love the time lovely time, recited the verset which in a low voice they like, then he found an excuse avoids, lets Arab League Li take off the coat calmly. The small peak hugs Arab League Li in the bosom strokes gently. The young couple is stimulated, intense must give oneself opposite party desire to occupy the heart which two were interlinked. Under the Arab League Li’s help, the small peak punctured the hymen carefully, Arab League Li bears the ache, closely walks arm in arm in husband’s bosom. They felt that union the flash, a chain tied up closely him and she in one, henceforth they together will walk the long pilgrimage.
The small peak and the Arab League Li’s example, are in the world the innumerable husbands and wives unify by the wedding night of disposable love become the life companion’s model and the ordinary example.
The wedding night, the young husbands and wives have wanted the disposable life are inevitably, bumps into hymen’s question is also inevitably. Treats hymen’s question correctly, also has become in the husbands and wives sexual affection civilization first question.
Generally speaking, the majority maidens preserve have the hymen, punctures it not to take the trouble, also not too ache. But some girls’ hymen was very tenacious, has formed a hindrance vaginal orifice barrier, punctured when needed to take the effort, moreover must accompany by certain ache. At this time, the bridegroom must be careful especially, cannot consider only own joyful and satisfies makes an effort forcefully, such must make the bride to fully suffer pain of the ache, moreover must bleed massively. Correct and the civilized procedure is, when the bridal ache is hard to endure, should stop the attempt temporarily, tries to obtain bride’s help, is in control of the situation by her, the aching feeling will reduce, even if the ache, she will not give birth the repugnance and the complaint.
On its effect, the hymen on the feminine body is an insignificant organization actually. Many maidens as a result of the labor intensity as well as the life difference, namely burst before the wedding in the hymen. This has a problem: When wedding night of disposable life the bride does not have the ache not to bleed, some bridegrooms then for no reason suspected that the wife is not loyal, then causes to have a falling out.
Invincible army’s youth tells the wife clearly in the wedding night: “are you tell me, you the maiden? If is, I want you. If is not, as soon as you got the hell out 1” the sexual intercourse to me to finish, he asked the bride impatiently: “has bled?”The wife said: “has bled.”He said: “I must have a look.”The wife said: “do not look!”He is not dry, must looks. Finally, he discovered that the wife has not bled, bellows: “deceives me! The mother, you roll!”A foot kicked the bride ground.
This bridegroom is also has the representation. Does not divide the good and bad, bursts the hymen with is not loyal draws the equal, this in fact is the male holds the principle, in the man realizes the performance. The primary sex life discovered that the wife hymen is incomplete, feels at heart not comfortably, even kicks up a fuss, looks like the invincible army such to obloquy that “the mother, you roll”, certainly is in the husbands and wives sexual affection life uncivilized behavior.
In the male holds under the consciousness latent function, in human culture’s chastity idea one-sidedly and develops abnormally, but the chastity idea’s development in turn enables masculine to hold consciousness to move toward the extremalization. The so-called chastity, is completely speaking of the female, to masculine not in the least binding force. The people to hymen’s regarding, are precisely a piece of shadow which the masculine acquisitive instinct and the chastity idea fuse project. Some people once “did not see to the wedding night red” have investigated these at heart uncomfortable husband, they said with one voice: “as soon as thought that she once had had that kind of matter with other man, I think the humiliation”. These words spoken lines, were the husband should be the wife’s first owner absolutely, as for him was one really “the virgin”, his even company wanted not to think. Therefore is not difficult to see, takes hymen’s idea is in human culture is short of seriously, is one kind has the despotic color not equal idea. Quotes the French initiation philosopher, the writer and the statesman, the thinker Rousseau’s example and the admonition, is very necessary. He and once lost the chastity to wear Laisi union, causes him to be happy, he has indicated his heart mark like this in “Thousand Regret Records”: “the chastity, in Paris, crossed 20 years old, which also has any virgin! ! I wear Laisi, I do not look for the thing which I simply do not want to look, actually held sincere and healthy you, I has been too happy!”May conceive, if one day, the male no longer regards as the marriage one kind holds the way, and holds from the thought consciousness to eliminate thoroughly; The female also no longer offers her chastity, takes itself to the husband love most powerful proof, the amphoteric union is completely stems from heart’s attraction and the meat attraction, both sides only wants to obtain the happiness which the body and mind unites, does not want to prove that other any thing, that the people will again also not regard the hymen.
Says from the physiological angle, loses the hymen not to affect to the human. Looked from the newly married sex life’s angle that will lose the hymen to be also better some. The bride when the hymen is punctured will cause the ache and bleeds, the hymen will be thick and strong will meet the ache to be hard to endure. The hymen will burst also will sometimes create partial
