Vaginismus again call the syndrome of the Sex fear, suffer from the women of this kind of disease while try sexual intercourse, around section outside the vagina 1/3 of muscle occurrence not and at will of spasm reflex, muscle mightiness contraction become an annular conglomeration, chase vagina entrance pass tight, can’t make the sexual intercourse carry on.
A rightness of husband and wife who is “impotence” but fight
Young lady Zhang demulcent therapy, reconciliation her husband the Sir arrive at doctor’s in front.What to open mouth is a young lady first, she says that the own husband gets impotence, but be be not willing to see a doctor, is to again and again mobilize just by her this time.When the doctor ask and Sir, he also admits that oneself gets impotence.The doctor discover the Sir talked and then seem to be very nervous in the beginning, talked to break continuously and continuously, talked no longer than three minutes and took out handkerchief to wipe perspiration for the some times.The doctor comfort Sir, all of not a few impotence patients is to cure okay, need not be so nervous.When the doctor ask and the Sir’s impotence performance, Sir say, have sexual intercourse to all enter not to go each time.The doctor ask him and have ever accessible, Sir’s answer say that have no.Doctor at detailed inquire the history of disease after again have a check for him, but detection the Sir’s erection of penis function normal.
Hence the doctor puts forward want to have a gynecology check for young lady Zhang, young lady Zhang feels very strange.Does the husband suffer from impotence how to want to have a check for her?Doctor tells her, the cause of disease of sexual function disorder is usually various, so husband and wife both parties all want to do to check completely.
When this female doctor’s vagina to young lady Zhang carried on a palpation, for remissing her strain, the tex idea showed her the fingers of own Tu2 Hao3’s lubricant, then handle knob the digit lightly put in the vaginal orifice, and part and the confabulation of young lady Zhang with reduce her nervous sensation.When the female doctor’s fingers slowly inserts vagina few, backward and a little bit exert some pressure, discover around the muscle out of the vaginal orifice appears to not and at will convulse sex contraction, obviously, young lady Zhang suffered from vaginismus.When the female doctor tells a young lady of this circumstances, young lady Zhang peeps out surprised facial expression.She has never thought the sexual intercourse doesn’t succeed the reason is at oneself.Young lady Zhang why meeting vaginismus?The doctor turn but detailed inquiry young lady Zhang’s circumstance.A matter that Ms. Zhang ? speak of caused the doctor’s attention.Young lady Zhang’s elder sister soon returned to natal home to grow a period of time very much after getting married.Young lady Zhang and elder sister’s on friendly terms together sleep a bed in the evening.Elder sister tells her, wedding night husband sexual intercourse action too coarse, carunculae hymenales rupture the hour be very painful.She begs a husband and don’t continue next go to, the husband at first promise, but finally endures to can not bear, and then wants to continue to carry on.She is painful and have to not live a ground of moan that evening.The second night again is such.She finally cans not away with and run to return to natal home “seek refuge”.The elder sister’s this section experience and left a deep impression for young lady Zhang.
Wedding night, young lady Zhang is the decision which embraces and bears with pain and sufferings to greet sex life.Husband just run into her, she whole body strain, scream.The husband has to as far as possible overcome himself/herself.Along with change of time, the reaction of the wife to sex life have no so nervous before, but sexual intercourse always not successful, the reason was to put not to go in.Young lady Zhang starts point the ? responsibility husband’s impotence, the Sir also feels and can’t exert husband’s responsibility, very guilty.Obviously, young lady Zhang’s vaginismus affected a normal sex life.
The lamentable is stupid
There is a rightness of husband and wife whom house lives the side far mountain area, come and then cure because of the sexual intercourse ache.Usually, because of sexual intercourse ache to seek medical advice of husband and wife, have some to have no machine quality disease, just because of both parties affection at enmity with, the wife has no interest to sexual intercourse to even disgust a sexual intercourse;There are also some husband and wife before have sexual intercourse phase zero being not enough full, the husband can not arise cuckoldry sexuality, &127;The yin ? way can not well lubricate, is also the familiar reason which has sexual intercourse an ache.So the doctor inquires this to husband and wife affection’s problem first.This answering to the husband and wife unanimous opinion is the husband and wife of free love, on friendly terms.Inquire about have sexual intercourse front of prepare work, this to husband and wife say the own cultural degree is very low, have never seen what sex the book of knowledge, but also listen to the person once say the ? had sexual intercourse to should daut, embrace each other ago etc., so also have preparation of do this aspect.As for pudendal discharge, secretion, vagina lubrication etc. problem, this unexpectedly knows not a thing to the husband and wife.
The doctor through check discovers cuckoldry urethra the mouth extend also inflammation.Hence the doctor inquires this in detail to the husband and wife, have sexual intercourse hour of ache performance how, is insert a hour pain, have sexual intercourse the pain in the process, be still a sexual intercourse just painful behind, husband embarrassedly says, “each time just insert go to, she the pain have to shout loudly.”The doctor understood and this unexpectedly was the urethra as vagina to the ? for husband and wife to have sexual intercourse.The doctor can not help shake, all in 90’s, at medicine flourishing today, unexpectedly still have thus of”sex blindness”.
The doctor takes this to see a model of female and outside yin to the husband and wife, tell them and the urethra is the place of urination, the urethra inferior surface is a vagina, and the vagina is the place of sexual intercourse.Through doctor some kind of point out, this to husband and wife’s thousand boons ten thousand thanked ground to go home.But led for a few months, this sought a doctor again to the husband and wife and say a sexual intercourse still very painful.
The doctor listenned to their statements and the assurance wasn’t mistake any more into the urethra this time.But why will be painful?This had sexual intercourse before to the husband and wife the mistake considered as the vagina to the urethra and made the wife experience tremendous pain and sufferings while lead sex life.This kind of is painful to deeply print in the wife’s brain.Try a normal sexual intercourse now, wife to have sexual intercourse of fear can not remove, so the yin way convulse new cause of disease.
The shadow in the forest
Ms. Lee and husband seeks a doctor together.Ms. Lee tells a doctor, she has sexual intercourse vaginas each time all very painful, but the husband tell to say hard insertion.Although the husband can also force to ejaculate, don’t exert person’s idea.And Ms. Lee is because of the vagina pain, to have sexual intercourse some interest also have no.She leads sex with husband living completely do the duties.She worry if this continues, she with the husband’s marriage very difficult maintenance.Doctor while having a gynecology check for Ms. Lee, the fingers just runs into her vaginal orifice and Ms. Lee shows proptosis one species painful but terrified expression.The doctor feel an own the vagina that the fingers can hardly insert her, and entrance discover in the vagina that a contraction gets very hard muscle annulus.See from check effect, Ms. Lee isn’t pure to fear the sexual intercourses, should diagnose for the vaginismus.The doctor passes to search a spirit factor of cause the vaginismus with Ms. Lee’s conversation.But Ms. Lee insist say and husband’s on friendly terms, sex life doesn’t moderate, besides which, , have no in the daily life much greatly self-contradict.The doctor asks Ms. Lee again in since the childhood of the career whether once took place to have something to do with sex problem of the Cuo fold, Ms. Lee also say have no.The doctor see the direct inquiry could not ask what effect, turn into chitchat, but discover from it Ms. Lee at premarital once had another in love with career, the doctor asked her to how break up with ex- male friend, derivation Ms. Lee’s a section recall.Ms. Lee and ex- male friend acquaint with for more than a years and get along with still fairly good.A male friend invite Ms. Lee arrive small forest to talk cardiac loop.Talk, the male friend suddenly and tightly embraces Ms. Lee and be short of breath.Ms. Lee feels far from good and quickly struggle the break out of small forest.
The angry ground of Ms. Lee think:”Originally all of mans are so bad, say a love me on the mouth, in fact is for satisfying own desire.”Don’t know is frighten or catches cold in the small forest, Ms. Lee greatly the disease be 1.No matter how this male friend explain, Ms. Lee still demulcent therapy, reconciliation he blew.The quite a few year that is hereafter, Ms. Lee sought object again.Finally at father mother under the repeatedly persuade of the relatives, Ms. Lee sought the husband in nowadays.
The doctor is analytical, that brokenhearted career, make Ms. Lee produce fear of sex feeling to the male, hard after causing her get married in sex living the aspect accept its husband and be her husband to try with she lead sex life, she always has a species to face to suffer from harmful sensation.This expresses the vaginismus which gets married to start behind for her.
Shear continuous traditional idea
He2 Xiao3 Jing4 was a good little boy since the childhood.The neighbors’ mother is educate an own little girl for instance to often say, “oh, you how make of, the new skirt just wears along while soiled, you see a somebody else sterigma quiet to be like one more girl and sit to read over there the book along while don’t say a words.”The sterigma is quiet is timidity be afraid of getting into trouble, obey but follow the rules Dao be apart from of miss.Whenever the home comes to guest, discuss relevant marriage, be in love of problem, her mother arrive to the room to her to go to, tell that she say:”You return sterigma, don’t listen to these matters, beware of to learn from bad habit.The girls of”her mother still tells her:”, at once stay away while outside hearing someone talking about these matters, don’t let the person say that you are mean.”Hence, “learn from bad habit”, “mean” se wordses, profoundly print in the small quiet mind.Afterwards, need not mother remind, as long as someone speaks of sex problem, the sterigma is quiet”insight” the ground stay away. Read the time of junior high school, once a few female classmates silently talk about oneself’s body the circumstance of the development in the dormitory, He2 Xiao3 Jing4 from walk through to at the right moment hear a female classmate say beside:”Did my pubic hairs just grow several radicals of sparse and sparse Shu and perhaps develop a day after the fair.”The sterigma is immediately quiet the face be red, wish and how to like to say to the person this kind of matter?It was really an abashed dead. Sterigma quiet learn to ride bicycle together with a few female classmates, carelessly chafed private parts, some swollen and inflamed, start to walk road to come to disadvantageous funiculus, and she be good friends with of the female classmate Ling Ling concern ground to ask her, the wound grow like, sterigma quiet say:”I also don’t know.”The Ling Ling say:”How can don’t know?”The sterigma is quiet to say:”How can know, that place can’ts see again.”The Ling Ling say:”Can’t you toward a mirror to see?”Sterigma quiet by hand Wu wear face say, ” was abashed to die, that place how good-looking?I take a shower at ordinary times and all dare not Chou the mirror of one eye bathroom.”The sterigma says for many newly married couples after ising quiet to get married that is the night of the most brave new marriage, but she is desperately nervous.Her husband didn’t°yet be real to touch her body and her has already started shout loudly.Many sexual intercourses not successful, make this become more and more nervous to the husband and wife’s relation, face marriage crisis.Press at the parents under, they have to come to beg to cure.
Through inquiry, check and analysis, the doctor diagnoses sterigma quiet is a vaginismus.Her born nature timidity is afraid of getting into trouble, meets a matter indecisive, and was instill since the childhood of sex is a dirty and mean false concept, had guilty and anxious feeling to the sexual activity and all of these be the reason which causes her vaginismus.
The vaginismus contains various reason, among them not a few is what spirit’s factor cause, but can’t neglect the machine quality reason, either.The machine quality reason includes tough and resilient fatty and thick carunculae hymenales, hymenal carunculae, inflammation, stenosis of vagina, senile vaginitis and give birth to baby to result in of injury etc..If exist these the machine quality reason, should try first as to it’s cure of or improve.
Because mental factor and lack sex knowledge to cause the women of vaginismus, usually can cure after accepting appropriate sex education and treatment to guide.
