I am a virgin, I hoped that I the lover wife is a chaste earnest girl, just like I hope her gently good virtuous. The pure and chaste is not lies in physical in my mind’s value that matter membrane, but comes from a girl to respect to love, with restrains to own indulging. I do not refuse to talk about me to maiden’s regarding. Perhaps meets time in this opening age this view to scoff with whips, but I am open and aboveboard, having no qualms of the line. What I did not understand, since this is the idea which one kind falls behind, since has the gentleman who that many does not care about, so are why many “the non-maiden” also to bully the deceit to deceive, obstructs covers the lid, must marry has “the maiden complex” the feudal character wholeheartedly?
Maiden question core in where? Does not lie in man’s selecting, but lies in woman’s Tibet.
Should not have any maiden question originally. If you are not the maiden, explained to yours boyfriend. If he is the honorable gentleman who a thought starts, cannot shut out you naturally. If he is “the feudalistic thinking” the serious character, this kind of man is also worth you loving? Is worth you marrying? It is not happen to may escape sea of bitterness? Why knew perfectly well that he is “the feudal character”, but must use the deceit method marrying by any means possible for him?
A thought not open boy knew after you are not a maiden, can perhaps be uncomfortable at heart. He will ponder that will weigh your manner, will weigh your sentiment, if he thought that you will be the very good girl, he can accept you naturally. If he is really looks this aspect is higher than all, you do not suit him originally, is not right?
Do not tell me saying that you are not willing to leave him, do not tell me saying that many boys very much care about. You before all have not occurred know all these. A girl, an adult, impossible not to know that the boy is right “chastely” this aspect value. The key is your choice. Did not want the excuse saying that was predecessor the boy forces you, a boy loved a girl really, then you only could cause him in before the wedding rejection to respect you, if had the boy really left you because of yours rejection, that was your misfortune absolutely, but was not your loss. He on has not had any great idea originally.
In this world has a thing to be called the principle, for example we cannot kill people, cannot steal the thing. Although the larceny holds others’ money is the matter which very comfortable enjoys very much, the reason that but the larceny very few is precisely because we use the principle to request oneself this matter to be able to do in no way, we also knew that will do this will possibly have the very bad consequence. Must be earnest to love to the marriage, did not want to have the sex act was also a principle before the wedding. Only some people take it to restrain itself, some people do not care about. I cannot guarantee that each maidens are request like this own, but requests own person certainly is a maiden like this. But the non-maiden is surely may give up under certain conditions to her sex act self-restraint person.
Perhaps the majority boys lie in this to maiden’s choice. Is asking a membrane, rather is asking a person, human who has the principle.
In this world also has a few words to call “to be willing the gambling to concede”. When you pour from the top the time you definitely are fill with the hope, although in your heart possibly also has is a little indefinite. You were willing to entrust the body and a boy were also one kind of gambling before the wedding. But the gambling stake is your choice, nobody forces you. But once you have poured from the top, you must know either win or lose, in your hand forever did not have that many chips.
We locate the age is a transition age, has many people to respect the former morals, also has many people to honor the new fashion. Has each advantages respectively in these two kind of choices: Perhaps in our parents generation of person, under the traditional morals, does not have many sexual affection enjoyment and love indulging, but really has is ordinary and is warm, lifelong defends the true feelings which shares hardships. But under modern tidal current impact, although marriage brittle, but you may not restrain pursue “the perfect nature”, “perfect love”. Regardless of you choose that are the same, please remember in this world not the free lunch, please remember is willing the gambling to concede.
Question core not on that matter membrane. This on-line many people had already spoken: It is not happy with the maiden with bed’s experience.
This is actually hides with Tibet’s game. After the girl is not the maiden, must cover by any means possible, even has a surgery patches up. What is the cover goal? Since your moral outlook so opens, why doesn’t choose these not to care about the maiden or not gentleman, but must marry for has the maiden plot person?
Some people said that these cared the wife maiden the person is whether bored, how to say these cover by any means possible the human is bored? If they do not cover the truth to the most intimate person, these boys will also use energy the eye eyebrow analysis? Also some person of one day suddenly will discover that LP will not be a maiden, but the mood will not be happy? Also the boy that used energy is also because some people pretended real, also saw the truth, what crime had? The male student who seeks vengeance for that thinks again, if you go to the store to buy the new clothes, the store sold to your one saying that was new, has put on two days later bumped into next door Lao Wang to discover that originally was the second hand goods which Lao Wang discarded you can not be angry? Let alone is LP.
Clothes new do not have the mistake old. If tells you are old, you have chosen, has bought, cannot have the later matter naturally. You do not have that psychological quality also happen to be possible not to elect, in order to avoid later sad. How does this take substandard products as fine products is a matter? You said that the old clothes can also put on, we to respect you definitely the view, but why can pretend to be? You cannot get used to seeing us, everybody takes each road respectively, also do not deceive us, bullies us!
The human are reason with, I ever do not despise these by the hoodlum violent girl, this with lives together to loss of chasty has the essence to distinguish, if discriminates against these unfortunate young girls does not have the human nature performance. How many examples but is Chinese university student one year raped by the hoodlum has? Why each time lifts this works as shield? I long such greatly have not known the neighborhood really, schoolmate or the campus have had such matter, only then has looked in the newspaper. Moreover to an honest girl, everybody very much treasures, little while ago not some person on girlfriends confident considers is not the maiden, result everybody not is suggested that this was a good girl, do not miss.
If we now are the new old moral outlook coexisting times, we have the old moral person to respect you to have the opening new moral outlook person. You must criticize us, we also do not have the words saying that but criticizes at the same time can not probably camouflage again and deceive. Like this everybody will live in peace with each other, regards that aspect to look for in any case her will also tell you, belief new wave’s will go loosely merry; Where some people will also introduce how to judge the maiden, where some people suddenly will also discover that LP will not be the maiden accesses the net the complaint?
