As soon as the people mention the pure and chaste question, will think immediately this will be aims at the female saying that as if the male did not have the pure and chaste question. In fact, in both sexes life, regardless of being the male or the female, has the pure and chaste problem. In our country, what the people take seriously especially since long is girl’s physiological pure and chaste question. In feudal society, the people have placed the entire pure and chaste question on girl’s hymen. Looked that a girl is maiden’s sole criterion, whether is inspects her in the wedding night of coal dust. This matter is the matter which second day of early morning everybody most cared. If the new bride early evening coal dust, the second day of groom’s family sends the specialist to deliver submits a written statement has ” the boudoir gate to have teaches, the virtuous young woman may Qin ” and so on inscriptions paste the bride’s family happily.
The girl will also take is moistening has the bloodstain bed sheet for the relatives and friends, the friends and neighbors to look that will demonstrate own pure and chaste. If the girl wedding night does not see the coal dust, not only the bride’s family honor loses; The groom’s family renounces one’s wife and sends her back to her parent’s home for this reason, the bride’s family is also speechless.
In now society, although people’s idea is also changing along with society’s development, but many men and women have not jumped out the feudal pure and chaste view the circle. Because some newlyweds do not see the coal dust on the early evening to affect the sentiment, some even cause the family breakage. Actually, the people turn over to the pure and chaste question to the feminine early evening coal dust are very unfair. Hymen thickness and the tenacious degree are different from person to person, not necessarily when primary sexual intercourse bursts bleeds. Some intense movement and the work, the possible maidservant child to have the hymen to burst before the wedding, oneself uncertain consciousness. Moreover, newlyweds primary sexual intercourse, often because of being insufficiently experienced, but is not successful. Therefore the wedding night of coal dust, does not explain the bridal certainly not pure and chaste.
In fact, physiological pure and chaste, although is important, but the psychological pure and chaste significance is bigger. In the psychology loses to a person’s influence is loyally long-time, creates the consequence will be also more serious.
For example, because receives the hoodlum member to rape or the unlawful element coercion the female who rapes, has both sexes relations young people as a result of own fault, although caused the unusual physiology to lose loyally, but, so long as could face the reality afterward, the determination observed the social morals standard, and will restrain oneself present’s behavior by this, then they definitely might achieve in the psychology do not lose loyally, will thus enable them no longer to present the fault phenomenon in the future life.
But, in a psychology loses the loyalty, because their idea and consciousness appeared biased, this unavoidably enables him not to have the performance in the behavior, thus causes in the physiology to lose loyally. In the current society’s some natural fault young people, they have lost the self-respect, the self-respect, the dead weight completely in the amphoteric question, but pursues the passion constantly giving vent to and satisfies, pursue sexual liberation. This kind will lose the loyal young people in the psychology is will step onto the crime wrong path surely. Moreover, the psychology loses loyally the harm which creates to a person not the age limit. Because the young people the psychology will lose loyally lose footing, because the adult senior citizen also the psychology will even lose loyally degenerates.
Obviously, a person, the young people, caused the unusual physiology to lose for various reasons particularly loyally, this was not fearful. What is fearful is causes in the psychology to lose loyally from this. Must be sure to remember that the psychology will lose loyally will ruin your future. Certainly, the unusual physiology loses loyally must avoid vigorously, it is the psychology loses one of loyal substantial clauses.
